i wonder if it's bad if "work" becomes your life. i think whatever you do for leisure, you can get paid for it - and i wish more people told me this growing up. if you love critiquing art, become an art buyer; people who just love God's word [or judging people] become pastors; people who love sports become The Schwab; and people who love studying law and economics on the weekend become planning commissioners. none of this nonsense asian doctor or lawyer crap. it dulls people!
so going into the office on the weekend would be like going to the arcade!
i think the problem with many kids today is that they're not encouraged to apply themselves out in the world enough. when you throw yourself out there when you're older, you're more limited to the opportunities around you and you don't have school/parents/next year's tryouts/etc to rely on when the risk doesn't pay off. yeah, there are no more try outs when you get older.
it was once suggested to me that "if it feels like work, it's not working."
but then i hear of those stories of single parents or people with disabilities who need anything that pays to get by. and then i don't know what to say. it makes me sound so selfish and irresponsible when i talk about doing whatever you want. like if my little brother came down with cancer today or i got into a car accident that was my fault, all my dreams and ambitions would probably go out the door.
but then if you think about how this life isn't ours, it starts relieving all this tension in finding out what you like and don't like and tells you how to respond to tragedies..
stupid obedience.
stupid, stupid us. it doesn't make sense.